The Secrets of Success

Thanks to the grace of God Almighty, I reunited with his servant on this one. He was a leader who is always protecting, providing guidance, encouragement, inspiration, ideas and fresh ideas. He ekoseorang leader who can move hundreds to thousands of his men. He was a teacher who has a sea of knowledge, which is always ready drawn by their children and how nothing ever run out.

    Currently he has a wide variety of business fields, including as a supplier and distribution equipment and health products, tens of hectares of ponds, dozens of hectares of fields, tens of rooming house, shop, booth in the mall, apartments and others. I've tried to count, he could be earning up to Rp 1 billion per month. An amazing achievement for me and many others.

    The meeting between me and I told him that under this happened a few years ago, when he was still earning between Rp 200 million per month. For me, this figure was not playing too fierce. I purposely did not mention his name, because I publish this story has not obtained permission from him. We take wisdomnya yes.

    One day, there was a dialogue between me and him in the foyer of a hotel in Bandung. I remember, he was told that he was glad to be asked. If asked, it will be explained at length. But if we are silent, so he will "sleep". Be my thinking to always started talking. Asked what could I ask.

    Until finally I asked the origin, "Sir, you are now a sort of success. At the very least, more successful than others. Then you think, what is the secret of your success? "

    Warning him not to answer this question seriously.

    "There are four things you should look," so he began his explanation.

    FIRST SECRET

    "First. Do not forget your parents, especially your mother. Because the mother is the one who gave birth to us to this earth. Starting at 9 months pregnant, was very heavy. Mother gave birth to us with difficulty, pain, life stakes. Heaven under the heel of the mother. Mother like Prince katon (God is visible).

    Many people today are wrong. The teachers and kyai kissed his hand, while his mother was never. The teachers and kyai dielukan adored and, given the millions of dollars donated materials, made the house; but her own mother left home or been given the material but very little. Many people who send off teachers or kyainya hajj, when her own mother had not dihajikan. Was reversed.

    Message of the Prophet: Your mother, your mother, your mother ... then your father and your teacher.
    Ridho ridho God depends on both parents. Gather a thousand clergy to pray. So much prayer mustajabah your mother. "He took a breath for a moment.

    SECOND SECRET

    "Then the second," he continued. "Multiply giving. Multiply charity. God promised to repay any money we spend it with a double. Alms able to beat the wind. Alms can beat iron. Charity property clean and our hearts. Alms deliver us from harm. God may repay our charity with a lot of good fortune, health, avoiding us from danger, a good family, knowledge, opportunity, and others.

    Do not Sepelekan if there is a beggar comes to beg you. Because that's when you actually opened the door of fortune. Give the beggar with a good delivery and good attitude. If you have paper money, better give him the money the paper, not coins. Chose bills are still good, not the already crumpled. Hold it with both hands, then reached out with respect if necessary, looking down (saluting). You give to beggars in that way, would terketuk heart, 'There has never been one to and appreciate this.' Then came out or not, he will pray for you with an abundance of good fortune, health and happiness.

    Many people are wrong to reject the beggar who came to him, even some are rebuked. Action was tantamount to closing the door rejekinya own.

    On another occasion, when I walked around with him, he certainly practiced what he was saying it. Giving a beggar with a bill of thousands are still good and give it with both hands as he bowed slightly. I saw the beggar was lit and how grateful.

    THIRD SECRET

    "God promises to give us good fortune from the road that unexpected," so he begins his explanation for his third secret. "But few people know, how fast it happened so? Most people just waiting. And it was his way. "

    "Right in the Qur'an there is one verse which roughly means: Anyone who fear Allah, held his way out for him and gave him a fortune from the street / door unexpected", I replied (Surah Ath Thalaq 2-3) .

    "Well, want to know how to how to we get the fortune that unexpected? , "He said.

    "Yes, how?" I replied. I think quite a devoted, His commands and avoid His prohibitions, then God will send the fortune that came to us.

    "Multiply helping people. If anyone needs help, if you see people who need it, you immediately help! "Was his answer made me think hard. "When something like that, you become a livelihood that is not unexpected for him. Then of course is God's response will also provide a livelihood that is not too unexpected. "

    "Although it was too rich?" I asked.

    "Yes, though it was the rich, a time he needed help. Maybe his wallet missing, probably leaking tires, or whatever. So if you see it and you can help, get help. "

    "Although the people who pretend to be? Now a lot of people on foot, came to our house, pretending to ask for donations houses of worship, or pretend not to eat, but it was just a lie. Donations are said to houses of worship, in fact he ate himself, "I asked again.

    "Yes, though people were just pretending to like it," he said. "If you ask, actually he did not like to lie. He had been frustrated because they can not work or do not have the right job. He was needed to eat, but it was clogged mind. Ultimately that's what he can do. About it later, leave it to God. God is judging his actions, and respond to God's intention and your gift. "

    FOURTH SECRET

    Well, more interesting, here. I'm nodding. Actually I did not think the question I clumsily was fruitful answers so serious and long. Now there's only one secret, the secret of the four as he said earlier.

    "The fourth nih, Mas," he began. "Do not push the woman".

    Hm ... this made me think hard. What does that mean. Do we make an appointment with a female friend, and we do not keep? Or do not let the woman waiting for? Like in the movies alone.

    "It means this. You've got a wife, or husband. It is your life partner, both in the hard and happy. When you go to leave home to earn a living, he was at home waiting and praying for your safety and success. He joined besama you when you're in trouble, earning a mediocre, food and clothing patch, he accompanied you and support your efforts to succeed. "

    "So?" I can not wait to know the continuation point.

    "Many people who later when successful, the money a lot, have a position, then married again. Or start playing a woman (or play man, for the women). Both married again openly, let alone in secret, that hurt your spouse. Remember, the first spouse accompany you in difficult times, support and pray for your success. But when you get successful, you leave. Or you menduakannya. "

    Hm ... the lesson monogamy, I thought to myself.

    "Many people forget about it. Once it was a great man, a lot of money, then look for another wife. Remarried. Felt "justice" that the Koran says justice is only a material. So chaotic household. When feeling abandoned, her life partner is not willing to be. Finally, the money spent on expenses here and there. Many people who fall for things like this. He forgot that the couple was actually part of his life have anything in her success, "he continued.
This I prove myself, every time I come to his house in Waru Sidoarjo, I found he had 1 wife, 2 boys and 1 girl.