Confused And Scared Want to Open a Business?

It seems reasonable for an employee (who had received good salary per month) are confused and scared when I want to pioneer their own business. This I experienced. And cases like this often I read in some mailing lists and business consultation section.
Many are advised to just jump in, just straight fell. Language cool it directly take action alone. How wanted to jump if still confused and scared? May be, for those who have the adventurous spirit. But what about those who are accustomed to looking for a safe and comfortable?
Overcoming a sense of confusion and fear are tricky. If you want to find a technique that a lot of patents already found. For example NLP, hypnoterapi, psycho cybernetic, affirmasi techniques, etc.
I do not intend to discuss the above techniques. I just wanted to share my experience how I was initially scared and hesitant to start a business, can be a brave start.
As I told you before. Keingingan ideas or to have their own business has long appeared. And the idea of business types who want to try too much to appear. From business RM Padang, Livestock Feed, Voucher HP, take franchise etc, all just ideas and not well done. And earned the nickname sayapun NATO (No Action Talk Only).
Until then I try to reflect on my past. In the past, no idea for me to be in college, because family life is mediocre. But thank God I was able to lecture in one of your favorite college with scholarships. I used to feel not possibly have his own house at around Greater Jakarta. And Thank God I can buy it, although I finally had to sell again. And there are many events that I previously thought were possible, could become a reality.
Learning from that experience I try to employ to achieve my desire to have their own business.
Everything begins from THOUGHTS and MENTAL. That's what I found from my life's journey. By the time I wanted to go to college, so every day my mind fill with all the things about school: selective universities, major choices, scholarships, praying to get to college, etc.. Likewise, when want to have a house, every house ad read, came to the fair housing, real estate brochures kumpulin etc..
With the start of the next action MIND will focus towards the realization of desires. Sooner or later, we will find a way that will draw on the goal. And we'll get a peak momentum to achieve our dreams.
I also often read motivational books. And it turned out the way I go, suitable / similar / identical to the recipes or moves offered in these books. That starts with changing your mind and any subsequent conviction, to change, action We also changed, until finally "fate" we changed.
Perhaps this is one of the laws of nature. This means that anyone will get the same if RESULTING CAUSE-CAUSE having the same (or Law CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES).
Similarly, when I want to have the business itself. At first I was not consistent to keep thinking about opening their own business. So mind jumping. Sometimes will have food house Padang, sometimes will open cafes, sometimes selling burgers will etc. follow-up. And more often FORGET and not about to open his own business, even the preoccupation with office work.
Then when I committed to immediately have his own business, I try to apply the same pattern as above. The mind is focused on how to start a business. business books I read back, it often browse articles on Enterpreneurship, joined the business mailing lists, chat with friends who already own a business, commuting to the office-look tengak efforts of others, to see opportunities, etc..
From getting out of bed to sleep thinking: how to start a business and what businesses can be run. Even if you have any dreams about owning their own business.
Finally, the desired momentum came. While discussions with the wife to open the veil and sales efforts taken by unanimous decision, the next momentum momentum rolling. And hardly believe it, the business that I want to happen and began to walk on September 14, 2006.
I really like the term used in a motivational book, that the actions taken by the model is often termed the "Inspired Action". Actions are based on the inspiration (the fruit of the work of mind) is not based solely on the desire and joining in the trend. For inspiration usually will come when we often think about a solution.
So for the moment still confused, hesitant, and afraid to start a business, begin to correct the mind and mental. InsyaAllah sooner or later will come when you will have your own business. Try to get inspired such action.
The bottom line: Change your mind then everything will change.